Saturday, December 6, 2008

Learning the Hard Way

Hi friends, hope you all are having an enjoyable weekend.Recently I learned another hard lesson in life about someone I thought was a friend, but it turns out this person is a user and does'nt care about me at all.It's not a J- lander , but someone I worked with .Unfortunately there is a store meeting tommorow early so I will be stuck seeing this person.I came to care about this person alot, even emailed them to see how they were doing since we work different shifts now, but they never bothered to write back so I see now that this friend - ship is one sided with me doing all the work, that's it. It's over, another hard lesson in life, I could cry about this, but it's not worth it.I'll get over it, eventually.


Toon said...

Yes. It's a reality of life that some people we confide in and befriend ultimately dissapoint us. I'm so sorry, honey. I'd never do that to you.


Chrissie said...

Sorry you have lost a friend. Some people are really selfish and never think about others feelings.
I still loves ya.
Hugs, Chrissie

E-Lo said...

I would still try when you see her/him tomorrow and ask if they got the email. Maybe, by chance they never did ? Just try.

I also have had an issue recently that has upset me dealing with a friend, so I understand.
Good luck with the meeting.

Amanda said...

(((((((((((((LISA))))))))))))))I am sorry you had to go through that,ts sad I know,I been there,many times.They dont see the real you,how nice you can be.They are missing out on alot.

lisa jo said...

it is heartbreaking when you THINK someone is TRULY a friend but they are a user/liar/backstabber or fake. I loves you.
CSI was AWESOME...Smoke gets in your eyes is a CLASSIC song and that was the 1st thing at the very beginning and i knew then that show would be great and it was. Did you see Jack kiss Sam on WOAT?

Jeanne said...

I am so sorry that someone hurt you and took advantage of you. Friendship is such a precious that some people just don't appreciate!


Michelle said...

I'm Sorry Lisa,

She doesn't deserve your friendship if she acted that way to you!

You deserve much much better!!!

Love you,


Barb said...

Hi Lisa!!!!!

Chris/cacklinrosie101 said...

Hang in there, Lisa. We all go through that because there are far more phony people than real. I would rather have one or two true friends that a whole bunch of fake ones. Love you!

Malagutigrrl said...

Ah screw 'em. You're a good woman. The good friends you'll find throughout your life will be worth the lessons you're learning about the bad friends.

Anonymous said...

Sorry to hear about the friend that really isn't. Don't let it bother you too much. Take care and have a good week.

Teresa said...

Baby Girl, I'm so sorry :( I know how much that hurts... many of us that are part of your "journal" family have probably had the same thing happen to them at one time or other and can empathize deeply. (((((Giving you major hugs Sweetie))))) You have us you know :) Blessings* Teresa

Water Runs Through My Soul said...

I know how it feels, however you will soon look back and realize this was NEVER a friend in the first place ;)
love you