Monday, March 17, 2008

OMG where do I Begin ??????????

Hi friends, Today was so crappy I do'nt even know where to begin, but when I had trouble getting out of bed this morning and getting myself out the door I should have known better.I woke up with a stomach ache - a combination of Mr Red coming and nerves too.The Beast was there of course, I wanted to confront her about why she gave Lydia this week off but I froze up and could'nt do it.I started feeling nauseous at my register and told the beast I was'nt feeling well.Well guess what ???????? She forced me to stay anyway for the whole day, what a damned heartless bitch !!!!!! If that's not a good reason to quit I do'nt know what is, she let Crystal go home last week when she felt sick and Kristina the week before, I think now that Steph quit , I am her new target to bully.The day got worse as it went along, this old grouch came to my register and was extremely rude to me about a soda that was'nt ringing up right.I had to have Dave come over and adjust the price on the drink and the old guy goes "He knows more then you do" What a rude old goat, I could'nt wait to get him moving on, this other older lady I got got all pissy because the customer before her was loading up her stuff for too long and started whining to me she was in a hurry, sighing I paged Robin for a Service 20, Boy was I glad to leave today, I even picked up a job application for another store, I think it's time to leave World Market, I am not about to become The Beast's new person to bully, hope you all have a good Tuesday, I'm off tommorow so I know I will, I Love You All Lisa XOXO

22 comments:

dca721 said...

Hi Lisa,
Sorry about the beast/BITCH
My day has been terrible too.
I don't know how we are all going to get through
this time.  I've been crying off and on all day.
The situation with my AIM is pissing me off.
I am so tired I am going to go to bed, I haven't been sleeping well.
Hope your week gets better.
Right now I don't see anything getting better for us.
Love,
Donna

toonguykc said...

Yes -- it sounds like it might be time for a job change.  Yikes!!

xoxoxo
Russ

hugsdoodlewacky said...

((((((((((((((((((LISA)))))))))))))))I am sorry you had a bad day.I hope it all works out for the best.

nay0114 said...

I wondered how your day went today. I was thinking about you. I am happy that you may be leaving that store. Hey why don't you go where that guy went to. The nice one that got married. Go back to work with him. At least you were happy then. I know what it's like to hate a job and have to go to it day after day. You deserve to be treated way better than that.
Take care and hugs, Chrissie

siennastarr said...

Lisa, I am so sorry that you are having to put up with this crap at work.  I know you have heard the saying, "People only do to you, what you allow them to."  Now.... unfortunately, you have two things against you.  One..it's your job, so of course being the person you are, you are going to be respectful towards your boss, even though she is being a bitch to you.  2nd.. you are non confrontational, and she knows it, so she takes advantage of this, and abuses you at every turn.
This is so NOT RIGHT!  I do hope you find something else, because you don't deserve to be treated that way.  Isn't there someone over her head you could report her to?  Or would it just backfire on you?
I am just so sorry, Lisa..

I am sending you strength and support through prayer...

Hugs and love
Jackie
http://journals.aol.com/siennastarr/Hopefloats/

lanurseprn said...

Sit down with her if she continues to harrass you and ask her point blank if there is a problem. If she denies it, then lay it out to her in a professional manner. I found that after I would do that, they'd quit harrassing me at all. It was like they learned to respect me.
Good luck,
Pam

ukgal36 said...

you've got to confont her!!! just ask her how come she allowed someone else to be off when she clearly stated to you that NO ONE could be off this week? tell her you just need her to explain that to you...also you do not have to put up with being bullied.. there are people above her and if you do not get satisfaction from her you go above her...youa re a loyal emplyee and you do not deserve this treatment...
the beast is lucky i don't live near there..
Lyn
http://journals.aol.com/ukgal36/Britsblog/

nightmaremom said...

Lisa I think you need to confront/talk to her...  this will make you so ill... and is so not worth it.  No job is.  If you don't get satisfaction go higher in the chain of command.  Good luck
hugs
d

peytonswater said...

I would go to the next person above her. If you can't talk to her, move up.  I also would pick up applications and immediatly be looking for another job.  It' time to move on sweetie.
I ahve to work in the kitchen at School today from 11 to 1, I will call when i get home, if you don't hear from me, CALL ME.
Love you
ang

queeniemart said...

if you can not speak to her call her supervisor. Do not talk about her to anyone that you can not trust. Tell the next boss up the line you have concerns. Do not be surprised if any or all of the managers tell you it is none of your business why asshole gave someone else the week off and not you. If they like the manager, they will screw you and cover for her. Or maybe the big boss does not have a clue how this ass runs the place and needs to know. I never trust anyone in management.
yesterday i watched a CC where a mom was forcing her son to come on to rich women and steal their money and then the mom was shot and in a coma for 18 yrs. Good show. Scotty was having hot sex on the desk with some lawyer.
Love,lisa

emmi2sweet said...

Does WOrld Market have a suggestion box? I'd write a note in there & make it be annonimous if you fear reprecusions. You were talking around Christmas of looking for another job come this summer anyway ... now you have a better reason to venture out. Good luck on the job search. Emmi

emabecmar said...

good idea in looking for a new job. it's what i would do. ((((((hugs))))))))
Love,
Cindy

therealslimemmy said...

I would be secretly keeping my eyes on the hunt for something else as well
sorry you had a bad day...that boss sounds awful :(
hope you are having a better day today
xo
emily

kamdghwmw said...

I hate rude people. There is no reason to be rude to people you do not even know! I don't blame you for looking for another job.
Kelli
Http://journals.aol.com/kamdghwmw/noonmom

chat2missie said...

If you don't get your nerve up and stand up to Melissa, she will keep bullying you!
Missie

ksgal3133 said...

I am so sorry! Sending you lots of hugs!
Thanks for the easter card, it made me smile :)

Hugs,
Gretchen

imgr8phil said...

You know, maybe that is why they put her in this store, to weed out the people they want to get rid of.  You never know.  Hopy you are doing better today.

Phil

cacklinrosie101 said...

I had a supervisor like that once.  When someone left, she started on someone new which me.  Nothing really helped until she wasn't my supervisor anymore.  Hope you relax tomorrow since you're off.  Hugs  Chris

cuteallison1980 said...

I hope you had a better day today Lisa.  Be careful around the job as long as she is there.  Maybe they are looking to clean house and I'd hate to see you leave on their terms.  Look for another job.  Put in apps everywhere, it can't hurt.  Have a happy tomorrow.  Luv ya!

Allison

nelishianatl said...

I think putting in apps everywhere is a good advice and save some steps and apply to places online too.  Try not to have them let you go.  Try to leave them first.  That boss lady has gotten by with her bad behavior for so long I think she enjoys it and is probably giggling inside so don't give her any reason if you can help it.  I hope tomorrow is not as hard as today.

Nelishia

nemokat05 said...

sry about you crappy day!

bojgill4375 said...

Who knows... there might be a better job with better pay out there. Should not have to put up with that much stress. :(  In my prayers, hugs, Janie