Monday, December 24, 2007

I'm an aunt

 Hi friends, Merry Christmas to you all, I met my mom and brother and Uncle for dinner tonight, we all had a nice time, my Uncle went out to the car a minute and pulled out a red and white card that had a photo inside of Anthony, my brother who hates me and does'nt talk to me or Derek, my younger brothre or my mom.He moved to Georgia 3 years ago, never gave us an address or phone number, just moved on and left us, his family behind without looking back.Anthony has a 2 month year old son who was in the picture , so I guess I am an aunt now and my brother is an uncle and my mom is a grandma.Too bad I will never get to meet my nephew.It's sad how our family split apart after the divorce, it sucks.I would like to thank Terry Ann, Janie and Russ for the beautiful cards I recieved in the mail today.Wishing you all a beautiful Christmas with blessings, I Love You All Lisa XOXO

16 comments:

imgr8phil said...

That is sure bittersweet.  You are an aunt but you may never know the child.  Sounds like me and my daughter.  Have a good Christmas tomorrow.  Hope you got the kitty something nice.

Phil

jckfrstross said...

maybe one day you will meet:) Merry Christmas

Deb

toonguykc said...

That kid will miss out on having a really cool aunt.  Sad.

xoxoxoox
Russ

dca721 said...

What?
YOU mean you, your Mom, brother didn't even know?
Wow!
If that's the case, I think Unc could have waited til after Christmas.
Lisa, did you ever get my card?
Just curious.
Just opened yours tonight,
It was buried amongst my rubble...
I had to clean & clean I did.
Still not perfect...
But will do.
In the morning wrap every where.
Merry Christmas.
Love,
D.

dca721 said...

Lisa,
I forgot to congratulate you.
On being an Aunt?
Would you consider writing him?
I have my lows with my sister, so I get that really well.
And then drama with EX
CAN be hell sometimes...
Love,
D.
Happy Christmas.
Where did you go to dinner?
Going to bed now!
Augh!

nay0114 said...

Awww... that is so sad because you would make a wonderful aunt. People that don't have children usually spoil their nieces and nephews. My kids think that Kyan is IT and he's like their own child that's how much they love him. I hope your brother will let you all see his son one day.
Take care, Chrissie

queeniemart said...

maybe someday that brother of yours will change and come back around. He is missing such a SPECIAL lady in you. Last night we went to Rick's brothers home...Joey. Guess what? Joey and his wife, Angel, are OBSESSED with CSI. I mean, OBSESSED. I told them all about you and they had CSI going on their big screen the whole time we were there so i sat and watched an episode with my SIL. She is in love with Warrick and Nick too. They both love Gil the best. It just tickled me.
I will be thinking of you all day.
LOVE, lisa

eml625 said...

Lisa, I'm sorry about your brother. I don't understand why family can't accept each other and live in peace.
Merry Christmas
Ellen

chat2missie said...

Maybe now that your brother has a baby, his heart will melt a little and he'll realize how important family is.  
Missie

cacklinrosie101 said...

Lisa, I pray someday that your family mends and you get to meet that nephew of yours.  Merry Christmas!  HUGS  Chris

cuteallison1980 said...

Congratulations on being an aunt, unfortunately you don't get to see your nephew.  I hope he really doesn't hate you.  That is such a strong word and feeling.  Maybe you can reach out to him and maybe forge a relationship in the future.  Hope you are having a very nice Christmas.  Luv ya!

Allison

kamdghwmw said...

It is so cool that you are an aunt. rusty will never get to know his nephew. It is sad. I do hope that you had a wonderful Christmas anyway!
Kelli
http://journals.aol.com/kamdghwmw/noonmom

bojgill4375 said...

So sorry that you don't get to see your brother. Some people really make hard choices that really hurt.  Congrat. on being an aunt. Maybe one day you will get to see your nephew someday. Hope you had a wonderful Christmas. Hugs, Janie

peytonswater said...

OH Honey, i am sorry to hear this. My childhood friend has 1 brother and after her dad died, he just well, took off, he lives in the SAME TOWN really, that is almost harder, there kids even do some sports together now. it's hard, I don't understand all that. And I"m sorry to see that you hurt over this :(
Love
Ang

emabecmar said...

I hope someday you get to see your nephew. ((((hugs)))))
Love ya,
Cindy

chevyz71gurl74 said...

Aww I hope someday you will get to meet him!

Hugs
Terri